Posted by: Heather | May 6, 2013

Motorcycle Diary: Local Trip to Millersburg, Ohio

IMG_7814Thanks to the headline of an article I caught in the Akron Beacon Journal about a brewery opening in the middle of Amish country, our first motorcycle trip of the season was born.

An Amish brewery? We had to check it out.

It was a beautiful weekend and the perfect time to get our motorcycles out. I think I only rode a time or two last summer because we were so busy, but I am dedicated to making time for it this year. The fiance insists I will soon outgrow my little Buell Blast, so I better enjoy her while she’s still mine!

Founded in 1815, Millersburg is a tiny town in the middle of central Ohio Amish country. I grew up less than an hour away, and we had quite a few Amish communities nearby.

One of my friends lived on a farm next to an Amish farm and schoolhouse, and we would go play on the see-saw and swings during the summer when the school was empty. It wasn’t unusual for the school bus to pass a horse and buggy.

That said, I cannot believe what a tourist attraction Amish Country is/has become! It blows my mind. Thankfully, historic Millersburg is not the central destination yet. We pulled our bikes into the center of town, had no difficulty finding a parking spot across from the Holmes County Courthouse and walking down to the Millersburg Brewing Co.

IMG_7817It was neat inside–lots of exposed brick and minimal vintage signage hanging around. We ordered the beer sampler to try the full selection of six homemade brews. My favorites were the vanilla porter, which I don’t typically like, and the blonde. We sat at the bar with a few other couples who all seemed to be taking our route of the sampler for their first time in.

Right now they don’t have a kitchen so snacking is limited to some handmade meat and cheese platters or the free popcorn. I think they would do well to up the snacks in order to keep people around during meal times, but Millersburg is on a nice drive, especially for bikers, so I think they’ll have traffic just for their brews. There is a tavern and sports bar also on the street that might steal the post-drink crowd looking for a bite.

After our taste we walked around town–meaning we walked down the sidewalk and back up because there wasn’t much to see. They bill downtown as the historic district, and the buildings were old and very interesting, but there wasn’t much in the way of shops outside several antique stores. We popped in one to burn some time, but it’s not really our things. We’re pretty minimalistic, and we don’t own many, if any, antiques.

We decided to take a different route home and ended up driving straight through the heart of the tourism metropolis of Berlin.

Uggggggg.

0504131328There were people and cars everywhere heading into every gaudy, overplayed “Amish” themed store you could imagine–cheese barns, candle shops, buggy rides, glass blowing, quilt making, etc. I suppose some of these things could be cool–I always enjoyed Heritage Days and Prairie Peddlar growing up, but I certainly wasn’t in the mood on this trip, and just seeing so many people carting around Amish Oak toys and candy was making me crazy.

Not to mention we were stuck in traffic behind a truck that–no joke–had a goat in the bed. Some guy was reaching his hand out the back window to pour  water into the bed for it to drink. It was wobbling all over every time they stopped and started. How I wished I had a camera handy for that.

Once we made it through the density of tourist shops things cleared out, and we were rolling through the hillside in a much more enjoyable state. It was brisk and a bit chilly when the wind caught you the right way, but the sun was shining and the countryside was pretty–it was a great ride.

We had stopped in Hartville on the way down for breakfast but we were starving on the ride back as it was late afternoon. We had to go through downtown Kent so we stopped to try a couple of the new restaurants–Newdle Bar and Yogurt Vi. The service wasn’t great at Newdle Bar, although we did enjoy our shishito peppers and noodle bowls. We popped into Yogurt Vi, which is a build-your-own yogurt bar, and got amazing treats. They had a couple non-dairy options–perfect for the fiance–and a hundred topping items to choose from. I created a half and half bowl of cotton candy yogurt with fresh fruit and caramel turtle yogurt with a medley of crunched up candy bar toppings. Both were delicious.

We sat in the window seats people watching and enjoying our yogurt before heading home. Wonderful start to our summer of 2013 motorcycle diary!

Posted by: Heather | May 5, 2013

Travel for (His) Work: France and Switzerland

123_530810649274_5353_nI’ve had some wonderful experiences traveling for my work, especially the last couple years as the fiance has been able to tag along.

It’s not all sunshine and roses. As I’ve mentioned, there is not much glamour when you travel for work and also commit the bulk of the trip to working–but there are the occasional trips where at least one of us has some down time or we’re able to tack on an extra day of fun with the laptops and phones turned off.

The fiance travels quite a bit for work–maybe once every month or so. At his last job, he was on the road two to three weeks a month. That was too much–he was exhausted on the weekends and always trying to squeeze everything into a couple days before hitting the road again.

We were living almost two hours apart for most of that so it made it difficult to spend much quality time together as well.

However, there were significant perks–namely, the airline/hotel/rental car points he accrued on a very regular basis. Those points (combined with my annual Delta Companion Certificate) paid, nearly in full, for a ton of our adventures the past five years:

You can do quite a bit of traveling when your airfare, hotels and rental vehicles are free, even when you’re right out of college and just starting off in your career.

The last couple years he was able to tag along with me for a couple of my work conferences in New York and Washington D.C. We didn’t have much free time, but we were able to add a day for exploration.

But now, for the first time in eight years, I’m finally able to tag along with him on one of HIS work trips! Unfortunately I can’t go for the whole thing, but I will take what I can get!

123_530810704164_8324_nIn June, he’s heading to Russia, Switzerland and France. The visa situation is a little outrageous with Russia right now–he’s been working on getting his for months–but it’s not a problem for me to join up with him in Geneva and then tag along to Paris. I’m a lucky girl!

I have been to Geneva and Paris before. I only passed thought Geneva so I’m looking forward to the day and a half I’ll have to explore on my own there this time around.

But I’ve spent a couple weeks in Paris on two different occasions so I’m working on planning some day trips from the city while he’s at the Paris Air Show. I will have at least two days on my own while he’s working, and then he and I will have three full days together.

We will be repeating some of the things I’ve done before like the Eiffel Tower, Louvre, Notre Dame, Arc de Triumph, Sacre-Coeur and maybe Versailles, but I know they will be brand new experiences watching him experience them for the first time. I also found some other neat things he will enjoy that I’ve not done before, like a bateau-mouche cruise on the Seine and La Lapin Agile, the oldest bar and cabaret in the city.

I started thinking though a couple day trip ideas, and so far I’ve come up with:

  • Provins: Medieval UNESCO Heritage Site, which is only 1.25 hours away by train
  • The Loire Valley: Train to Tours is only 1 hour and then you catch a bus tour to several of the castles
  • The Champagne Region: Train to Reims is only 45 minutes and then you catch other transportation to the triangle of old cities

We also talked about going over to Luxembourg for a day. I thought I might head over while he was at the Air Show, but it sounds like he would really like to go. It would be a new country for me, which is pretty exciting!

Most exciting is getting to travel with him to places he has never been before and knowing I will have no phone or email the whole time, which means a true and clean break from work for the first time in years. Again, I’m a very lucky girl.

Any Paris day trips you suggest? Anything I should be sure to do in Geneva or Luxembourg?

Posted by: Heather | April 28, 2013

Rocking the Resolutions

This past month I was able to complete a couple more ideas from my New Year’s resolutions list and actually cross off one goal altogether! Mentioning it on the blog is more for my accountability than your interest, so apologies.

The two items I recently tackled from my list are:

  • Take part in at least two volunteer/philanthropic opportunities (Initial thoughts: Playhouse Square PartnersCleveland International Film Festival)
  • Go on four local adventures, visiting places within 2-3 hours of home I’ve never been (Initial thoughts: Cleveland’s West Side; Erie, Pa.; Detroit/Windsor; Wheeling, W. Va.; local state parks/sites such as Towner’s Woods or Brandywine Falls

CIFF_Poster_2013Cleveland International Film Festival

This was my fourth year at the Festival, second year volunteering, and it was the best yet. We seemed to do a much better job selecting films this year than in the past.

We also seemed to pick a lot of documentaries this year:

We also squeezed in some shorts, although they weren’t as good as we had hoped. We went to the Judge’s Picks for best shorts on the last day of the festival, and although the awards part was neat, I think we might have liked the Audience Picks better than the judges, who were a little heavy on the artistic and light on the enjoyable.

I was also able to schedule my volunteer shifts in advance so I could better plan around when I wanted to view films. Hopefully next year I will have even better luck.

Towner’s Woods

Despite living in Kent all four years of my undergrad and living within half an hour drive for another four years following undergrad, I never made it to Towner’s Wood just north of downtown Kent. We had unusually beautiful weather the end of March so we decided to talk a walk. It was warm and breezy and a few other people were walking the paths. Although nice, it wasn’t much of a workout–the paths are pretty clear and there were limited hills, etc. Nice if you are looking for a literal walk in the park.

Towner's Woods in Kent, Ohio, on a Sunny Afternoon

Towner’s Woods in Kent, Ohio, on a Sunny Afternoon

Grape vine swings, following along the lake and old structures by the train tracks

Grape vine swings, following along the lake and old structures by the train tracks

Brandywine Falls

Yesterday we finally made it to Brandywine Falls, another nearby spot I’ve been meaning to visit for about 10 years. It was a beautiful day– warm and sunny– and there were a lot of others with the same idea. We walked over to the falls to practice some photography, and then we hiked the Brandywine Gorge. It was a little more challenging, which was nice, but the 1.4 miles didn’t take anywhere near as long as it mentioned (1 hour). We were in good spirits heading back to the house to clean up for dinner.

My favorite parts of the day

My favorite parts of the day

A couple more local adventures done, a couple more resolutions checked off the list. Feeling groovy.

Posted by: Heather | April 21, 2013

Travel for Work: Washington, D.C.

IMG_7640Most people who travel for work know it’s not as glamorous as those who do not travel for work may think. Still, it’s really nice being out of the office and in a different setting– even when you’re working the whole time.

Such was the case on our recent work trip to Washington, D.C. I was hoping we would have some free time to explore, but that ended up boiling down to a day and a few extra hours. For the most part I was at my conference, which was awesome, and the fiance was on conference calls and working from the hotel room.

As far as normal D.C. activities, we made it around to the monuments and toured one of the Smithsonians and the National Archives to see the Declaration, Constitution and Bill of Rights.

We missed the cherry blossoms by a few days, but there were still a couple trees with a few lingering blossoms that were pretty to see in person.

Our first time eating Ethiopian cuisine!

Our first time eating Ethiopian cuisine at Dukem Ethiopian, which has live cultural music on Wednesdays, just in time for our arrival!

In the evenings after the conference concluded each night, we did try to explore some of the awesome restaurants around town.

Outside the great information I gleaned from the conference sessions, our foodie forays ended up being my favorite parts of the trip.

We are not afraid to try all foods once, and I love dropping in and spending time hunting for seats at the bar, trying a couple weird apps and then hopping on to the next place.

We just get to hang out and talk–something I could never get tired of doing with him. It’s also a chance to catch up on photos we take or things we’ve seen–it is always so interesting to me what we each pick up on. Sometimes we look back at our photos when we get home, and you would think we were on two different trips. It’s a lot of fun experiencing it all again from the other person’s perspective.

On this trip, we were able to catch snacks at several restaurants my work pals suggested.

Chinatown for Matchbox, which was celebrating its anniversary and where we met up with Erin, who I studied abroad with and who I haven't seen in eight years!

Chinatown for Matchbox, which was celebrating its anniversary and where we met up with Erin, who I studied abroad with and who I haven’t seen in eight years!

Some of those foodie highlights as follows:

Wednesday

Array of other amazing stops, including Ben's Chili Bowl, Old Ebbitt Grille, Churchkey, Capitol Brewing Co., Chef Geoffs

Array of other amazing stops, including Ben’s Chili Bowl, Old Ebbitt Grille, Churchkey, Capitol Brewing Co., Chef Geoffs

  • Dukem Ethiopian Restaurant - Tried the combo number two; sambusa with meat, lamb wot, beef tibs, minchet abesh and tons of injera. Interesting!
  • Churchkey - Tried the ricotta doughnuts with spiced apple butter and bourbon caramel dipping sauce and fire roasted shishito peppers with spicy peanut dipping sauce. AMAZING.

Thursday

  • Matchbox - Tried the famous burgers paired with doughnuts and coffee for dessert. Very yummy.

Friday

  • Capitol City Brewing Company - Tried the tuna sashimi, fried green beans and sampler. Great snack.
  • Chef Geoff - Tried the crab cakes, beer battered house pickles, hoisin duck confit and calamari. Finished with ice cream sampler of maple, pistachio and lemongrass, which was very refreshing.

Saturday

Final night out ended at Founding Farmers where we tried some new brews as well as ranch popcorn, pickled vegetables and maple bacon skewers

Final night out ended at Founding Farmers where we tried some new brews as well as ranch popcorn, pickled vegetables and maple bacon skewers

  • Ben’s Chili Bowl - Tried a bite of the fiance’s chili smoke and had the house chili dog and fries. Good and really fun atmosphere.
  • Old Ebbitt Grille - Tried the raw bar sampler platter of oysters and clams. Raw oysters still my favorite.
  • Founding Farmers - Tried the ranch popcorn, pickled vegetables and bacon lollis (cinnamon-brown sugar glazed thick-cut bacon)

A couple other highlights of the trip included some animal sightings–one good and one bad.

The bad was on our way to Founding Farmers our last night. We walked through a small park between the White House and the restaurant and came across a pile of rats. I thought I would die–I was horrified. I have traveled many places, and I have never come across anything like it. They must be fed because they were running around in the grass among quite a few ducks, and they did not seem at all concerned that we were walking along the path. In fact, they kept running and cutting in front of us. I was half screaming and holding on to the fiance for dear life.

On a much happier note, we went to the Lincoln Memorial after Founding Farmers to see it at night and capture a few last photos, and I noticed something moving in the bushes and then running around the small green. At first I thought it was a dog, but more people started stopping and pointing, and it was actually a fox! Some guys said she had just had babies–I don’t know if that’s true, but she seemed nervous and kept running around distracting everyone from the bushes, so I guess it could be true!

Overall we had a nice, productive trip, but certainly not a vacation or real get-away by any means. I’m hoping I can put some of my learnings to practice at work, and of course I look forward to our next adventure!

 

Posted by: Heather | March 26, 2013

Wedding Planning: Setting Up a Honeymoon Registry

Dubrovnik, Croatia, one stop on our honeymoon

Dubrovnik, Croatia, one stop on our honeymoon

I did a lot of online research before deciding to set up a honeymoon registry.

I read so many reviews and comments and articles about how a honeymoon registry is just a mildly less tacky way of outright asking for money. That it makes an assumption (as do all registries) that people will buy you gifts for your wedding, which they certainly have no obligation to do.

Despite giving into many wedding traditions, I have been a holdout on many things, and we are doing a lot of things in a  nontraditional way. I don’t know how most people feel about that, but I know that regardless of what everyone else thinks, our day is going to be a reflection of us.

And I am so excited for that. I am so excited and nervous. Some days it is all I can think about and other times I will go a week trying not to think about it at all because it’s easy to become distracted and overwhelmed.

I can’t wait to celebrate our marriage and the beginning of our life together, and I am really looking forward to sharing all of the craziness and memories of the day with our friends and family. It makes me feel so grateful and loved to think our closest and best lot in life are going to be there for what I know is going to be the biggest moment in my life.

But it’s been really hard for me to want any of those lovely people to do anything but plan on attending and celebrating. I am trying to plan everything myself with significant input from the fiance, support from my mom and best friend, and helpful suggestions and insights from others.

Planning is what I do. It’s the nature of my job. I find great satisfaction handling everything behind the scenes and watching others enjoy the outcome. For whatever reason I thrive on the stress and the crazy and the incredible relief when everything wraps up cleanly in the end.

I’m not looking forward to being the center of attention on our wedding day. I am kind of dreading it. I would love to be another guest witnessing the wonderful event, not the one standing up in front of everyone. I don’t know if there’s a way to be a less noticeable bride, but that’s what I’m going for. As long as everyone is having a good time and I have moments throughout the day to slip away with my husband (eeeek!) to just have a moment to ourselves, I will be supremely happy.

I don’t want others stressed or running around or worrying about things or making sure things go well. Because that person is usually me, and I know that you miss everything when you’re trying to ensure everything is doing what it’s supposed to do.

I don’t want others spending time or money they don’t have trying to fulfill obligations that don’t really exist. I have been to many weddings and showers and bachelorette parties, and while I was always happy picking out the perfect gift for the occasion, it was because I wanted to. Not because I felt I had to. I sincerely hope that is the same experience among those attending our wedding.

The thing is, I have had people ask where we are registering. I have had people ask what we need around our home. I also have had people ask where we’re going on our honeymoon. I have had people express excitement at the crazy adventure of our marriage and first trip together as a married couple. And I don’t think any of those requests were driven by tradition or obligation. I think we have a lot of amazing people in our lives who truly care.

And I think it’s all because they know us. In a lot of ways, and by today’s standards, I think we live pretty simply. My one friend threatens me every time we meet for drinks and she sees the old grape (i.e. my 11-year-old Saturn SL) sitting in the parking lot. The fiance will Google or YouTube any task in the world and figure out how to do it before calling a repairman and paying someone else money to do what he knows he can do. It’s not that we don’t do anything or splurge occasionally, because we do, and I definitely do (the fiance wins in the saving money category).

However, most of my splurging is related to travel. Going on trips together and experiencing new people, places and things together. Growing and learning together. The fiance doesn’t quite share my level of enthusiasm, but he does enjoy our adventures. He has proposed and continues to propose adventures for us in the future.

And I think our family and friends know that. I think they know we’re every bit as excited (ok, I might be a bit too excited) about our honeymoon and initial adventures together as we are about all of the hullabaloo leading to our ceremony and celebration of our marriage.

With that in mind (and I know it’s a lengthy, wordy post to get to this point–I can only assure you it was much more complicated and wordy in my head as I worked through all of this over the past several months), we decided to create a honeymoon registry.  So if our loved ones are so inclined to want to gift us on our big day, they have the option of selecting a component or adventure within our honeymoon as an option.

Based on the recommendation of a friend whose sister used the same site for their wedding, we built our honeymoon registry at www.wanderable.com. The best part, for me, was spending hours writing up the individual adventures we may have while we’re on the road. I’m not terribly entertaining, but I tried to at least be personable and to share as much as we can anticipate about the different stops on our trip.

The initial feedback from our very close family and friends has been positive with the most heartwarming responses tending toward the “it’s so you!” and “these memories will last a lifetime” variety. And I think it is, and I think they will. And I really hope the idea is well received by other guests too. It’s just an option, not an obligation, and I hope that’s very clear.

I am open to criticism as well. I plan to write about the idea after our wedding too; in an attempt to throw my two cents in with the gobs of other opinions I read when considering if this was a good idea. To possibly impact the next up and coming bride who is wondering what the heck to do.

By then I should be safely back behind the scenes where I belong. Married, happy and looking forward to a lifetime of adventures with my husband.

What do you think about a honeymoon registry? Tacky or personal? Have you ever set one up or given a gift using one?

Posted by: Heather | March 18, 2013

My Last St. Patty’s as a Single Lady

Pinterest-inspired shamrocks

Pinterest-inspired shamrocks by my future mother-in-law

The fiance and I have been hosting St. Patty’s Day gatherings for several years. Unfortunately the year of the move in (and move again, and move again) was a break in the annual festivities, but we’ve gotten back on track.

I mislabeled this year as our ‘third’ annual gathering but it was actually our fourth. Wish the fiance had brought that to my attention before I sent out all the invites. Oh well–next year when I change it to ‘fifth,’ we will see if anyone notices.

I’ve loved hosting our friends and family for St. Patty’s. It’s a great time because it’s just a come and go as you please format. Our friends often stop by early so they can grab some food, say hello and then head to their partying destination. Our families come and set up shop for the duration of the event, catching up at sort of a mini family reunion.

I think there’s a little something for everyone, although I was sad we didn’t make it to the entertainment portion of our evening this year. I think everyone’s flame burnt out a wee bit early this time around.

Partly due to the weather, in my opinion. We were absolutely spoiled last year with near record high temps. Everyone was outside on our patio drinking and eating, the kids were running around the year, everyone enjoyed the sun and company just a little bit longer and we ended up having a great sleep over and Ulster Fry breakfasts in the morning.

This year we had snow and the threat of more snow, so it seemed like the visits were earlier and the party was tapering off by 8 p.m. I guess when you start at 1 p.m. there is a chance that’s going to happen–I had been enjoying Irish coffees for a while at that point, and I was still waning. Or maybe I’m just getting old. Geesh.

We had a slightly mixed bag line up of foods. I tried to be more traditional last year, but unfortunately I think the effort was lost on most people. (I just can’t get anyone on board with black pudding.) We were also taking into account how busy we were going to be leading up to the party, and thought simplifying and letting others chip in was a better route. Our menu ended up something like this:

  • Corned beef and cabbage
  • Potatoes and carrots
  • Roasted Brussels sprouts
  • Baked parsnips
  • Chunky applesauce
  • Irish cheese board
  • Irish soda farls and jam

We also had a variety of desserts and spirits, and Brian made homemade bangers and Irish sausage for the dinner round. I was planning on champ, but it wasn’t warranted so I made it later in the week for us to enjoy with the leftover sausage.

Based on RSVPs and who I remember seeing, we were at 30-35 people, which was a fun crowd. I think if the weather had been better we might have seen even a few more.

Next year we’re pushing back the start time to see how that goes. We might have better luck gathering around the fire with the guitars and song books if we can keep the energy levels high longer into the night.

Successful hosts!

Successful hosts!

Grabbing snacks with Katie

Grabbing snacks with Katie

Hanging out with Kelly and Tracy

Hanging out with Kelly and Tracy

Our youngest guest, who spent quite a bit of time with our oldest guest

Our youngest guest, who spent quite a bit of time with our oldest guest

Our panther, Seppy, aka the 'sep-rechaun'

Our panther, Seppy, aka the ‘sep-rechaun’

Family and friends

Family and friends

Who doesn't love a little Winnie the Pooh?

Who doesn’t love a little Winnie the Pooh?

I did stop to think about what we’ve done in the past and what we would do in the future–my online invites seem to fail in reaching many of our possible guests so printed invites might be implemented moving forward–and it dawned on me that next year I would be hosting under a different name.

Pretty gift from my mom that snuck into our travel room

Pretty gift from my mom that snuck into our travel room

We are about to officially hit the six month countdown mark, and I’m starting to get even more nervous and excited. There have been dreams (read: nightmares), there have been heart palpitations, there have been even more items crossed off the wedding planning checklist.

All of these next months events will be ‘my last time as a single lady’– Easter, Independence Day, my birthday (heading into the last year of my 20s, yikes!)– and as soon as those wrap up, I think we’ll fly through the shower and bachelorette party and straight to the wedding.

Straight to the first day of the rest of my life with my best friend, love of my life and favorite human being of all time.

So this was my last St. Patty’s as a single lady.

And that’s fine by me.

Posted by: Heather | February 14, 2013

Wedding Planning: Choosing a Honeymoon Destination(s)

BlueMosquePlanning our honeymoon has been the most exciting and terrifying part of the wedding planning so far. I want the trip to be brilliant, and I really want the fiance to have a great time because he has traveled less, at least in Europe, and so has fewer expectations, which he tells me is a good thing–that he will be happy no matter what simply because it’s our honeymoon and we’re together having fun, not because of any preconceived notions of what we’re getting ourselves into.

Speaking of, what we’ve gotten ourselves into is a 15-day adventure, primarily in Eastern Europe and Asia (I forgot to mention to the fiance that Turkey is in Asia–a new continent for him!)

We start and end in Istanbul, Turkey, spending about four days there, and are on a cruise for seven days, which stops in:

We’re also taking a two-day trip to Bucharest, Romania, which has been on my list ever since I read The Historian in college. Of the line up, I’ve only been to Venice so I’m really excited that this will be a whole new adventure for both of us. We have also never been on a cruise (the one I took up the Nile doesn’t really count) so that is another first I’m looking forward to experiencing together.

We received a lot of great tips and recommendations from friends and family who have been on cruises–some multiple times in multiple places–so I feel good about the basics. Now that we’ve booked, I know I’ll be spending a lot of time on the website looking into all of the excursions we can do at each stop so we can start booking those as well. I love creating itineraries for when we travel, so for me, the best is yet to come.

Other than selecting the excursions on the cruise, we also have full responsibility for planning our stay in Istanbul and Bucharest. Once I started thinking about it, I realized I knew at least three people who have been to each place so I already put out a call to all of them to see if they can provide any suggested things to do and see. If you have anything to share, I would love to hear it! I’m sure I’ll find ideas online and in my travel books/magazines, but the hidden gems are what really make the experience, and I’m looking forward to getting off the beaten path a little while we’re there.

Having never booked a cruise, we did a lot of research before narrowing down our selection. The amount of cruise lines, ships, ports, arrival/departure options, excursions, number of days, etc. is overwhelming.

Here are some things I suggest considering to help you narrow things down when you’re trying to decide the where, when and how:

  • Time on the ship versus seeing the sights: We have never cruised so we aren’t sure how much we’re going to like it. I originally thought we would cruise the whole, or at least the majority of, the honeymoon, but we heard from a lot of people to take a short trip (seven days or less) this first time to make sure we enjoy the time on the ship and cruise experience. Depending on the cruise, you might have a couple days just at sea getting from place to place. While the fiance liked that because it’s a little forced relaxation time (apparently I have a reputation for jam-packing the itinerary–weird), I wasn’t sure I wanted to spend time just hanging out on the ship when I could be exploring a new country or city. Decide what’s most important to you and then see what itineraries are aligned. When we decided on a seven-day cruise, it really helped narrow down the options.
  • Ports and excursions: My original idea was for us to just visit Greece and Turkey, but for the exact time we would be honeymooning there were no cruise options that only went to those countries that fit the bill. There were, however, many options that went to those countries as well as a few others, so the real question was what we hoped to do on the excursions and which ports would give us those opportunities. We heard a lot of positives about stopping in Dubrovnik, while many people said you need a day or less in Athens–those tips helped us think about ports and excursions, which ultimately helped eliminate some options.
  • Travel to and from the ports of departure/arrival: Once we narrowed down to our top 10 cruises, we started looking into round-trip flights to the different ports of arrival and departure. This quickly eliminated several options because it turned out to be so costly and time-consuming just to get to the departure location. We ultimately ended up taking the money we saved by booking the least expensive airfare (round-trip to Istanbul <$840) to pay for local flights while we’re there to sneak in another stop. If you’re somewhat flexible, using the airfare cost to further narrow down your search may not only help you eliminate options, but free up some funds for you to use on excursions, ship amenities and more.
  • Time of year: I found myself paying a lot of attention to the ports of call and the recommended times of year to visit those locations. If you have any flexibility on dates, you can focus on when the place you want to go is best from a calendar year standpoint to decide where you’re going when. Important note: This might also mean everyone else in the world wants to see that place at that time. Balancing tourist season with when a country is in its prime ‘viewing’ time can be tricky, but if you can arrange to go during a great time that’s outside the typical tourist season, the prices will also be lower, which may allow you to do more. I couldn’t believe how much of a difference in price we saw for the same rooms on the same cruises from early September (tourist season) to the end of October (just outside high season).

If this hadn’t been our honeymoon, I probably would have started with where we wanted to go and then based the dates we went off of the items I outlined above. I see why people like to cruise from a cost standpoint–it’s much cheaper than I expected, but you do give up the unplanned itinerary and experience of staying overnight at the destination in some cases.

On a personal note, Romania will be the 28th country I’ve visited. I’ve had a secret (until lately) desire to hit 30 countries by the time I turn 30, and this is going to put me close. It’s exciting, but I do still firmly believe it’s not how many places you go but the experiences you have along the way. I couldn’t be happier that I’m going to be sharing this incredible experience with the love of my life and future husband. On many different levels, I absolutely can’t wait.

Posted by: Heather | January 31, 2013

A Capitol Idea: Heading to D.C.

cherry_blossom_fest_jefferson_background_1I’m very fortunate that my employer encourages me to attend at least one large-scale professional development conference each year, and I’m excited to have officially booked my attendance at the 2013 PRSA Counselors to Higher Education Senior Summit in Washington, D.C. this April.

Last year I went to a Ragan Communications Summit in NYC, and to be honest, I was little disappointed in the content. It ended up being a ‘back to basics’ and ’101′ format, especially in terms of social media initiatives, so I didn’t feel I got as much out of it.

I anticipate this will be the exact opposite. My boss attended this conference last year, and it’s really intended for more executive level pr/communications professionals who are looking to enhance their strategic planning skills and stay abreast of the ever evolving higher education landscape. I’m a little nervous but also excited; I think this is the direction I need to be headed so I can prepare myself to move into a more strategic, leadership role as a next step in my career.

I am also excited because the fiance gets to tag along, thanks to my annual Delta Skymiles Companion Certificate. He doesn’t have much time off since we’re saving everything we have (money, PTO, energy, etc.) for our honeymoon this fall, but he is able to work from the hotel room each day I’m at the conference without having to take time off. It works out perfectly because then I’m not concerned about what he’s up to while I’m attending the conference, he doesn’t have to miss out on work, and we can both enjoy the evenings together as well as the weekend days we tacked on after the conference wraps up Friday.

The other great thing about his tagging along is that’s he’s only ever driven through D.C.! I’ve been many times so I’m excited to plan our free time around what he wants to do since he’s never been. I think his only requests were that he see the Constitution and Bill of Rights at some point so I’m looking into booking our tour of the National Archives. I am also very lucky to have a relative in the Secret Service who is helping me make arrangements to possibly tour the White House and Capitol through his connections.

It will probably be a whirlwind visit given we’ll be working the majority of the time and then squeezing in a little time for play, but I’m really looking forward to the conference and getting a little time away to see D.C. during cherry blossom season with my best friend.

Although I’m leaving our big stops up to his whim, I am always open to restaurant locales–let me know what you recommend right downtown!

 

 

Posted by: Heather | January 23, 2013

Resolutions Down, Happiness Up!

Officially a member of Partners, Playhouse Square

Officially a member of  Playhouse Square Partners

Since we’re a couple weeks into the New Year I decided to take initial stock of how I’m doing with my resolutions. In every day life, if I don’t start off on the right foot, I sometimes have difficulty getting myself pumped up to get back on track.

Hence my affinity for doing things correctly the first time.

Hence my not-so-endearing personality conundrum of striving for perfection.

Luckily for everyone involved, I’m off to a good start. As I’m knocking some resolutions down, I’m definitely seeing my happiness level rise. There is almost nothing I like more than crossing items off my ‘to do’ list.

I started off with some fun, feel good ones. I’ll work my way up to the ones that require more time, planning, funding and dedication. Although I’m happy to say I’m at least laying the ground work for some of those in month one of 2013.

To recap my first two resolutions:

2013 Resolutions

I started off by signing up for Playhouse Square Partners and received my membership information in the mail a couple weeks ago. I’m very excited about the new discounts I can take advantage of as well as the new updates and information I’ll be receiving from Partners, but I’m especially excited to have the opportunity to join one of the Partners committees. There are several related to communications and event planning, which most people would probably expect me to pick given my background and profession, but I think I want to push myself to do something different.

There is an education committee that works on programs that are a little more external, including activities to help raise funds for children to have better access to theatre programming. It sounds fun but also a little more cause-driven than putting together social activities for the members of Partners. I am going to think about it this weekend and send in my final decision Monday.

Elephant2I also got us memberships to the Cleveland Zoological Society, which also has some volunteer/philanthropic opportunities I need to look into, but my true reasoning was for the awesome year-long passes to the Cleveland Metroparks Zoo! We have been talking about going for almost eight years and when the weather got nice a couple weekends ago, we finally went.

Along with half of the state of Ohio.

But it was really fun! We only did about half of the Zoo–it was really nice just wandering around, taking our time and enjoying the animals. I’m looking forward to ongoing visits to see the other exhibits as well as a day we can just hang out in the Rain Forest, which I haven’t done since elementary school.

Here are a few photos from our lovely day at the Zoo.

Reindeer

Bear

Lions

PolarBear

Flamingo

Giraffe

Rhino

 

I think 2013 is off to an excellent start, and I’m feeling good about having marked down substantial efforts toward my goals.

Next up on the resolution agenda, the CIFF and booking our room for the Dublin Irish Festival! Hope you’re having a successful start to the new year too!

Posted by: Heather | January 21, 2013

An Adventure to Remember

A year ago today, I caught a glimpse of how I had always envisioned my life unfolding, and my happiness knew no limits.

I wrote a special post that detailed the love story of two kids who became two adults who finally realized they were soul mates.

A year ago today, I realized that sometimes dreams do come true.

I had my first experience of being so shocked and overwhelmed that I was literally speechless and visibly shaking.

A year ago today, I got engaged.

A lot can happen in a year, and a lot did happen this past year. But today I’m every bit as happy as I was during the proposal a year ago, and I’m so excited that I’ll be married to my best friend in less than eight months.

I just wanted to take a moment to remember that wonderful, snowy, romantic, icy weekend in Niagara-on-the-Lake, Ontario, Canada.

Snippet of the many wineries we visited at Niagara-on-the-Lake

Snippet of the many wineries we visited at Niagara-on-the-Lake

Downtown with so many beautiful buildings, fun shops and the ice wine festival

Downtown with so many beautiful buildings, fun shops and the ice wine festival

The Harp, an Irish pub run by some Northern Ireland natives, where we stayed and where Brian proposed

The Harp, an Irish pub run by some Northern Ireland natives, where we stayed and where Brian proposed

My beautiful, meaningful ring and the most wonderful carriage ride as I tried desperately to come down from my happiness high enough to speak

My beautiful, meaningful ring and the most wonderful carriage ride as I tried desperately to come down from my happiness high enough to speak

A brief stop on our way home to tell our family and friends--if a rainbow doesn't mean a promise of happiness, I don't know what does

A brief stop on our way home to tell our family and friends–if a rainbow doesn’t mean a promise of happiness, I don’t know what does

Thank you for humoring my sentimentality.

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